Friday, July 25, 2014

What a Disciple Looks Like - Part 2



Last week I listed some knowledge that a disciple should possess. Today we’ll look in the Affective Domain and think about its relationship to discipling.

            In my doctoral dissertation, I wrote that the Affective Domain contains feelings, values, beliefs, stances, convictions, sentiments, character traits, virtues, dispositions, and demeanors.[1] Today, more than 23 years later, I also include attitudes and lifestyle commitments in the Affective Domain.

            In all of my reading, reflecting, thinking, and writing I have become convinced that all three domains are necessary in order for learning to be complete. In discipling terms, all three domains are necessary for a disciple. In head, heart, and hands terms, a disciple has to know something, feel something, and do something. All three are necessary: Cognitive, Affective, and Behavioral.

            First among equals is the Affective Domain! In my view, the Affective is the engine that powers the train. And it is where the Holy Spirit works!

            My doctoral advisor, Dr. James McElhinny, said that the Affective is the most important of the three domains because if a teacher can change what a student wants, that’s the most powerful thing a teacher can do. Change what they value, what they believe, what they want – and they will almost automatically pursue the knowledge and the skills.

            Think about it!

            When you were saved, perhaps you felt deeply in love with Jesus. That was an affective experience. You couldn’t get enough Bible, you couldn’t wait for the next worship service, you were eager to learn and grow and serve. Why? Because your want to changed! Your feelings were involved – you were in love! – and you wanted to know more and learn new skills.

            That, in a nutshell, is why I made the bold statement above that the Affective Domain is “first among equals.” Like last week, here is my beginning list of affective learning that a disciple needs. Please add your own thoughts to this list!

In no particular order, a disciple should be/have/possess/be characterized by

11.      Committed to Christian standards     
22.      Personally righteous   
33.      Love for God 
44.      Holistic attitude toward life  
55.      Self-awareness           
66.      Personal belief in the gospel  
77.      Patience
88.      Sense of personal responsibility         
99.      Strong faith    
110.  Morality: a character above reproach 
111.  Brave, courageous
112.  Will take needed risks
113.  Values work   
114.  Actively seeking spiritual and personal growth         
115.  Lifestyle of holiness   
116.  Appropriate humility  
117.  Simple lifestyle          
118.  Financially responsible, thrifty, pays own bills          
119.  Filled with the Holy Spirit     
220.  Temperate, self-controlled     
221.  Prizes wisdom
222.  Values the unknown - mystery          
223.  Reverence for what is truly important           
224.  Optimistic, positive, hopeful  
225.  Open to learning        
226.  Serves others without regard for acclaim or repayment
227.  Wholesome attitude toward opposite sex      
228.  Positive attitude toward nature, environment           
229.  Values diversity         
330.  Not motivated by financial gain        
331.  Values truth
332.  Speaks the truth in love
333.  Positive regard for change     
334.  Enthusiastic    
335.  Willing to confront in love     
336.  Flexible, adaptable, tolerant (not rigid or dogmatic) 
337.  Attitude of brokenness – a wounded healer  
338.  A clear vision of God’s call on their life
339.  Cooperative, team/partnership mentality (not a “Lone Ranger”)      
440.  Positive attitude toward church         
441.  A passion for serving God
442.  Sense of belonging to a larger cause  
443.  Does not avoid difficult situations
444.  Caring, empathy for others    
445.  Appreciative of other religious traditions      
446.  Tactful
447.  Hospitality, welcomes strangers        
448.  Not jealous of others  
449.  Appreciative of others
550.  Respects the dignity of others           
551.  Submissive to the Body of Christ      
552.  Senses others’ needs and feelings      
553.  Acknowledges one’s own limitations and mistakes  
554.  Dependable, trustworthy, faithful     
555.  Compassionate           
556.  Loves people  
557.  Nondefensive
558.  Trusting
559.  Vulnerable      
660.  Accepting of people who are “different”
661.  Integrity
662.  Honest with self and others   
663.  Loyal  
664.  Open to other peoples’ ideas and problems   
665.  Willing to accept guidance    
666.  Helpful           
667.  Keeps word - fulfills promises           
668.  Friendly, outgoing, warm      
669.  Courteous       
770.  Kind, gentle   
771.  Respectful and open toward people of other faiths  
772.  Unselfish        
773.  Committed to justice 
774.  Inclusive, unprejudiced, unbiased, fair          
775.  Gracious         


[1] John H. Aukerman, “Competencies Needed for Effective Ministry by Beginning Pastors in Church of God Congregations in the United States” (EdD dissertation, Ball State University, 1991), 11.

6 comments:

  1. Wow -- my numbered list really got messed up somehow!

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  2. Wow that is a long list! Somebody could write another dissertation on what "a disciple should be/have/possess/be characterized by." Of, course choosing to follow Christ is an ongoing path of discovery of what he wants us to be/have/possess/be characterized by.

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  3. That is some list! I believe that a disciple obtains these over time as they mature in Christ. We cannot expect a young disciple to posses unselfishness, they are too immature in their walk. Likewise, we can expect a mature disciple to be kind and gentle because they are mature. I think allow people to mature in their own timing will be positive to their growth.

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  4. I wonder if these traits must all exist at one time as we develop, or if these traits arise at different stages in disciple development. This is an extensive list, and I believe that these traits could manifest in different traits of the disciple at different times during discipleship, I just wonder at what point they each show up.

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  5. The "want to" is truly important and make a lot of sense. We will make time for something if it is truly valuable to us in some way shape or form. The list of traits are extensive yet as we grow in maturity they become second nature to our lives, yet it is these traits people observe that stand out.

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  6. I certainly agree that the affective domain is incredibly important, especially in regard to Christian discipleship. Scripture reminds us over and over again that God is concerned about our hearts, and that right knowledge or right action without the right heart is pointless. Additionally, as you pointed out, heart change leads to behavior change.

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